I am frequently asked for recommendations on how to follow up on a training presentation or a speaking engagement. This book club reading list is a great place to start.
Start a Customer Service Book Club
Whether you’re an MSP owner, own a different type of technology business, a CIO, an HR manager, or another type of manager or supervisor, one of the best things you can do is start a customer service book club to read and discuss books oriented around people skills.
Especially discuss how the books you’re reading related to the customer service experience for your end-users. Additionally, discuss what your customers expect, how customer happiness is directly related to how well you solve their problems, and how customer satisfaction is directly related to good customer service experiences.
Many of the books on the list below are about caring for others and yourself. People who take good care of themselves are better able to care for others. They’re also better able to work well with others, even when relationships are difficult. When customers feel well cared for by providers who are knowledgeable in their products and services, they’re more likely to promote your company or department via word of mouth.
Effective customer service comes from the combination of high-quality technical knowledge with mastery of people skills. The books in this list provide plenty of opportunities to go deep in discussing how people think and feel. So, even though some of the titles below aren’t directly related to great customer service, they are directly related to how you can build great relationships with customers and coworkers.
Tools for Book Clubs
At the end of the chapters in The Compassionate Geek, you’ll find discussion points and to-do lists. Additionally, this link will take you to a page with more discussion topics and recommended videos from my YouTube channel. Additionally, browse through the videos to find topics relevant to issues you may be dealing with in your business or your department.
Book Club Books
It makes sense to start with my book The Compassionate Geek since your staff has just spent time with me learning the five principles and other concepts from the book.
You’ll find additional ideas for conducting a book club on this page of my website.
The books on this list are books I either used in preparing my speeches and seminars, books that have influenced my thinking, or books that have been recommended by people I respect. Some of these books are directly related to customer service, while others are oriented around personal growth and development. As you read these books, you’ll notice where many of the ideas I talk and write about come from.
Books by Don
- The Compassionate Geek: How Engineers, IT Pros, and Other Tech Specialists Can Master Human Relations Skills to Deliver Outstanding Customer Service by Don R. Crawley
- The 5 Principles of IT Customer Service Success by Don R. Crawley
Books by Other Authors
- Dare to Lead: Brave Work. Tough Conversations. Whole Hearts. by Brené Brown
- The Memo: What Women of Color Need to Know to Secure a Seat at the Table by Minda Harts
- How Women Rise: Break the 12 Habits Holding You Back from Your Next Raise, Promotion, or Job by Sally Helgesen & Marshall Goldsmith
- Leading Without Authority: Why You Don’t Need To Be In Charge to Inspire Others and Make Change Happen by Keith Ferrazzi
- Supercommunicators: How to Unlock the Secret Language of Connection by Charles Duhigg
- Hidden Potential: The Science of Achieving Greater Things by Adam Grant
- Power to the Middle: Why Managers Hold the Keys to the Future of Work by Bill Schaninger, Bryan Hancock, Emily Field
- Multipliers: How the Best Leaders Make Everyone Smarter by Liz Wiseman and Greg McKeown
- The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever by Michael Bungay Stanier
- Good to Great: Why Some Companies Make the Leap…and Others Don’t by Jim Collins
- The Five Dysfunctions of a Team: A Leadership Fable, 20th Anniversary Edition by Patrick M. Lencioni
- Leaders Eat Last: Why Some Teams Pull Together and Others Don’t by Simon Sinek
- Extreme Ownership: How U.S. Navy SEALs Lead and Win by Jocko Willink and Leif Babin
Books on IT Leadership
Timeless Classics
- How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie (This is Dale Carnegie’s timeless 1936 masterpiece on personal growth and development by gaining a plain language understanding of human nature.)
- Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor N. Frankl (This is Dr. Frankl’s profound book inspired by his experiences in Nazi concentration camps during World War Two. It’s life-changing in its lessons.)
- 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey (Dr. Stephen Covey’s landmark 1989 book describes seven behaviors that differentiate top performers from everyone else.)
- First Things First by Stephen Covey
- Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill (This is Napoleon Hill’s 1937 classic, the result of more than 20 years studying some of the most financially successful people of his era.)
- Don’t Believe Everything You Think by Thomas N. Kida (This is one of my favorite books because it challenges old thought patterns using logic, reason, and data.)
- Win Forever: Live, Work, and Play Like a Champion by Peter N. Carroll, Yogi Roth, Kristoffer A. Garin
- Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ by Daniel Goleman (This is the book that started the Emotional Intelligence movement.)
- One Small Step Can Change Your Life: The Kaizen Way by Robert Mauer, PhD. (This short book is life-changing and career-changing in its simple lessons of continual reflection and self-improvement.)
- Tuesdays with Morrie by Mitch Albom (Have a tissue ready.)
- The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom by Don Miguel Ruiz
Check out the New York Times Best Sellers at nytimes.com/books/best-sellers/business-books/. If you have other book clubs or reading lists you like, please leave a comment below with a link.
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Obviously, there are many additional books well worth reading on customer service, interpersonal communication, leadership, personal growth, and professional development. This list is not intended to be comprehensive; it’s merely a starting point.
The key is to read.
Whether you’re in a book club or not, read much and read often. Especially read authors who are different from you and with whom you disagree.
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